How to Know If She Is Interested
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I recently received a question from a guy about whether or not he should make a move on her.
I have been hanging out with this girl for the last two weeks. I’m afraid that I may be in the friend zone and need help in determining if I should risk making a move on her or just play it safe?
Losers play it safe. It is easy to find out whether or not she is interested. Put yourself in her shoes. Actually, put yourself in two pairs of her shoes. One pair says she likes you, the other pair says she doesn’t.
If She Doesn’t Like You
It is possible that you’re reading too deep into things and she really doesn’t like you as more than a friend. So, you make a move on her. What is she going to do? The worst that will happen is that she will just say ‘no’. Oh boy! No!
Well, there could be one other problem. You might lose the friendship with her. She may not want to talk to you anymore. If she’s nice, she’ll just avoid you and won’t mention you to her friends. However, if she feels like it, she might start telling people what happened. Pretty soon everyone will know that you tried to make a move on her and she declined you. This could suck. However…
If She Does Like You
Maybe she does actually like you. Even at this point, you don’t just want to go in without giving her any fair warning. She might be uncomfortable even though she does like you.
So what to do? Hmmm…maybe you want to ask her to hang out with you this weekend. I know, brilliant, isn’t it? You don’t have to risk embarrassing yourself. The worst she could say is ‘no’. That’s it!
In conclusion, if you think she likes you, ask her to hang out (just the two of you) this weekend. She’ll know it’s a semi-date, and she’ll probably be expecting some physical action, so you can be sure of yourself when you make the move. And hey, if she does say no, there are always other girls out there that may be interested, even if you don’t think so.
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as a general thought
first impressions are SO important
once you are in the “friend zone”
there is a good chance you will stay there
listen carefully:
attraction is not a conscious decision
if you leave your first impression on a girl without creating any sort of attraction, there really may be nothing you can do about it.
on the flip side, if after a first impression on her creates even a tiny bit of attraction in her
there is nothing SHE can do about it
(barring of course, you monumentally messing up)