Asking A Girl Out On A Date
If you want to actually go out with a girl, you need to learn how to ask her out on a date. However, this can be a very complicated process. If it were easy, you probably wouldn’t be reading this right now. Don’t be afraid, because it isn’t hard once you know actually how to ask the girl out.
Have A Plan
Do you actually know what you’re going to do with this girl? Sure, you’d like some physical action, but this isn’t Fast Times At Ridgemont High, where you can just take a girl to an old baseball dugout and have sex with her. Girls today like to actually do things that are fun. Are you going to see a movie? Maybe go to a concert with her of a band she likes. Even just walking around a mall is doing something. Know what you want to do before you ask a girl out, otherwise, it’ll go something like this:
You: “Hey I was wondering if you’d want to hang out this weekend?”
Her: “What do you want to do?”
You: “Uh I don’t know.”
Doesn’t that sound stupid? Have a plan!
Prepare Yourself Physically
If you plan on asking the girl out in person, which I recommend, make sure you are looking your best. No, I’m not talking about wearing your Church clothes. Just make sure to be clean. Have a mint before you talk to her. Maybe one or two sprays of cologne. Just know that your appearance when asking a girl out could determine her answer. No one wants to go out with a smelly, dirty kid.
Are You Ready for a Date?
If you want to ask a girl out on a date, make sure there is actually some connection between you two. How long have you known the girl? Do you talk to her at least two or three times per week? Do you get along with her friends? (this is a big one - if she has friends that do not like you, chances are she will not like you)
You may be in a hurry to be able to go out with the girl, but make sure you know her well before you start offering to go out with her. Otherwise, you could have a couple problems.
Means of Transportation
If you plan on going somewhere with a girl, you need to have some transportation. Nothing is worse than a first date with a girl, with your mom driving and the two of you in the backseat. She’ll be asking her all sorts of questions and she might even meet the other girls mom. It’d be horrible.
Don’t take the bus, that’s just stupid. If you’ve got a decent car, obviously use that. However, if you’re unable to drive, maybe have an older brother be the chauffeur for the night, or a friend that is willing to do you a favor. Just make sure whoever is driving is someone that you’re comfortable being around with your new date.
So, what about actually asking her?
If you’ve prepared yourself mentally, made sure she’s somewhat interested, and are clean, you’re probably ready to ask her out. So how exactly should you do it? Well, when you two are somewhat alone (make sure no one else can hear), ask her if she wants to go out sometime. If you see a smile on her face, congratulations, there’s a 99.9% chance she’ll say yes. Then, since you’ve prepared what you’re going to do with her, you can tell her the plans.
These are just some of the basics you need to know when asking out a girl. Don’t worry, there will be much more on this in the future.
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I like your site. Good information, might need some sexual advice. Also have some pictures up. It will bring more viewers.
In another topic you say to definitely use cologne, now you’re saying maybe use it. Which is it?
Also, I disagree with the whole making sure you know them and have talked with them or hung out with them a few times first. There are many girls where you see them in the hall or in a store or wherever and it’s a one time thing, you just have to go for it. You don’t always have the luxury of waiting, and waiting can work against you by looking like lack of confidence and nerve.